Each sorority has a process called “Big/Little.” This instance is where a freshman and a sophomore mutually agree for the freshman to join the sophomore’s “family.” So, the freshman will be the “Little,” the sophomore will be the “Big,” the junior will be the “G-Big,” and the senior will be the “GG-Big.” They help the Little assert herself in their sorority and are always there for each other to lean on.
As I have mentioned before, I am in a sorority-Pi Beta Phi. This past Sunday, we had our Big/Little celebration. We went to the house supposedly for a group picture, but we were let in on the excitement shortly after that. First, we walked through the hallway and found a poster with our name, directing us to a room number. This clue was our Big’s bedroom, where she had laid out pajamas and goodies. Quickly, I changed into my navy blue pajamas and sprinted downstairs to find my Big.
Each Big hides in a uniquely decorated cardboard box, shouting for the Little’s attention. Finally, I spotted “Kayden.” I lifted the box and unveiled my Big’s identity as my G-Big and GG-Big videoed. Liz smiled at me, and I was ecstatic as I waved and hugged her.


I met Liz the first week after Bid Day, and she has greatly influenced my college experience. She has given me advice, looked out for me, and been a genuine friend–just like a true Big should. For this reason and so many others, I am forever thankful she was hiding in that cardboard box.