Month: November 2022

Something About You (that now I can’t remember)

Recently, The 1975 released new music and it’s been a big hit. Though, the most popular new song by far is “About You”. This is for obvious reasons, and I’m fully convinced that this may just be one of the prettiest songs that makes me feel the most unexplainable emotions of both love and sadness.

The entire song is about a man recounting his love that has obviously ended. He talks about how there is a place he goes, presumably a place the couple used to go together, to remember them and what they once were. He talks about the conversations that they would have if they were still together. He then goes on to ask the question “Do you think I had forgotten?”, asking the partner if they really thought that their relationship and themselves had been forgotten about so easily. He then goes on to continue reminiscing on their relationship and how he still finds himself holding on to the hope that they may one day find their way back to each other. After this, we launch into perhaps my favorite part of the song and I just have to show yall these lyrics:

“There was something about you that now I can’t remember
It’s the same damn thing that made my heart surrender
And I’ll miss you on a train
I’ll miss you in the morning
I never know what to think about
I think about you
About you

To be dramatic for a second: every time I hear these lyrics I want to do a multitude of things, including but not limited to twirling, dancing, sobbing, collapsing to the floor, singing, clutching my heart, and fall in love. I want these lyrics to be played in the tv show of my life at a significant moment and I want to think of someone and have someone think of me.

Now we don’t have time to unpack all of that, but you get what I mean. I’m obsessed with the idea of there forever being something special about a person that once they’re gone, you can never quite put your finger on what it was about them but you know that it was there. The way that there is just something about certain people in our lives that stay with us and haunt us long after that person leaves our lives. And the way that that thing haunting us is both painful and comforting because even though they’re gone now, they were there at some point and this unidentifiable thing is ironically one of the only parts of recognition you have left of them. It’s poetic and painful and really beautiful.

Steve Harrington Deserves the World

Stranger Things is one of the most popular TV shows in the world. Each time a new season is released, it takes the world by storm and it’s the only thing that anyone can talk about for months. The one consistency across these seasons? My love and the whole world’s love for Steve Harrington.

Steve was introduced in season one as nothing more than the jerk that Nancy was dating. In fact, he was actually supposed to be killed off after the first season, but luckily the creators of the show saw the potential of his character. Since that season, Steve has had one of the most iconic character developments of all time. Steve went from a self-absorbed jock to a caring father figure and the best babysitter of all time. We watch him take on the role of being a protector of the younger kids and risk his life for the people around him. There is a lot of speculation over why steve acts the way he does and my personal opinion is that it has something to do with his home life. It’s hinted in early seasons that Steve’s mom and dad aren’t around a lot. They run off on business trips and leave steve alone in a giant house. I think that Steve stepped up to be a role model for the younger kids because he understands what it’s like to not have one. He knows what it’s like to not have any parental figures around to watch over you, and he doesn’t want any other kid to grow up that way. This is why he takes care of the younger kids. I think it’s incredible how selfless we’ve watched him become as the show has gone on. When we started this show, he was a young high school boy and he definitely acted like it, now he has truly grown up into a man who now has things to defend. This teaches an important lesson. That being that anyone can change and decide to be better. Sometimes it’s just a matter of growing up.

It Ends With Us.

If you’ve been on any social media platform in the past year, you’ve probably heard of the book “It Ends With Us” by Colleen Hoover. I read this book during my senior year of high school and it genuinely might be one of my favorite books I’ve ever read.

It Ends With Us tells the story of a young woman named Lily Bloom. Lily is an outspoken, caring young woman who is just trying to get through life. The book begins with Lily meeting a very angry Ryle one night as they both contemplate life on the roof of a parking garage. From there, the two meet again and again until they become friends and eventually even start to date. Now, this is where our story gets a little different than most YA books. We slowly start to sense that something isn’t quite right with Ryle. The way he reacts to things is usually out of proportion and he makes comments that are off putting. Colleen doesn’t just sweep these aspects under the rug or write them off as him “caring”. She has lily acknowledge these things and even call Ryle out at some points. The two work things our, and even decide to get married. But it is far from happily ever after, as the book goes on, we see Ryle for what he truly is, an abuser. Going so far as to Push lily down the stares and then lie to her when she regains consciousness, telling her that she tripped. More and more events like this happen and we watch as lily goe through it all. This is all happening while an old friend from lilys past comes back into her life. Atlas, the sweet boy she met and took care of from her childhood. He’s returned and is now a very well known and successful chef. Atlas watches Lily as she goes through the abuse, and wants nothing more than to help her, but he knows that he can’t help her unless she wants it. Eventually, Lily leaves Ryle, only to discover that she is pregnant with her and Ryles child. She decides to keep the baby, but after giving birth, tells Ryle that she wants a divorce. She asks Ryle to look at their child, and what he would tell their daughter if she ever came to him and told him that a boy had abused her. Ryle understands, and leaves. We end the book with a glimpse of the future. Lily and Ryle successfully co-parenting their daughter, and Atlas and Lily starting a relationship.

I love this book. Not for the romance or dramatic moments, but because of the lesson it teaches. This book is a cautionary tale for young girls who view relationships through rose colored glasses. In the beginning of the book, Ryle is perfect. He’s handsome and charming, he’s funny and intentional with his time. He cares about Lily and her dreams. He is everyones ideal book boy. And then, when he hits Lily for the first time, all of that charm starts to fade away and we begin to see right through it as Lily does. This book doesn’t write off toxic behavior as romantic, a problem in a lot of YA novels, it calls it out for what it is, abuse. I also love this book for the real best book boyfriend, Atlas. Atlas not only defends Lily as soon as he realizes what is going on, he then backs off when he realizes that lily needs to make her own decisions. He understands that he can’t make the decision to leave for her. He doesn’t insert himself into her situation in order to be a hero or her knight in shinning armor. This also allows the readers to see something rare, the idea that sometimes, you have to want to be saved and you have to be willing to save yourself.

First Amendment Project

I interviewed six people, three from my generation and three from the older generation. I asked them the following question: Would you approve of a law saying “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press, or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.” if congress were considering it? 

The younger generation:

Anndee Greenlee:

The first person I talked to was my friend Anndee, a nineteen-year-old at the University of Texas Tech. When I asked her if she would approve of the law, she said yes automatically. When I asked if she thought it was excessive, she said no because “everyone has a right to speak their mind”. When I asked her if she recognized the law as the first amendment, she said she did. This checks out because I and Anndee were in the same 8th-grade history class and had it drilled into our heads by an amazing teacher who recognized its importance. 

Jake Elliott:

The next person I interviewed was my brother, Jake Elliott who is a junior at the University of Oklahoma. When I asked him if he would approve of the law, he said “yeah probably”. Well, actually he told me, “Isn’t that just the first amendment?” but I digress. I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way and he said no. He stated that “it was something to be defended”. I then asked if he recognized the law as the first amendment, and he said that he did in fact recognize it.

Trevor Whal:

Next, I interviewed Trevor Whal, who is a member of the NORTC and a junior at the University of Oklahoma. When asked if he would approve of the law he said, “Ma’am isn’t that just the first amendment?”. I asked him to tell me his thoughts on it anyway and he said that he definitely approved of it. When I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way or offered too much freedom, he said “not at all”. He then added that if he had to pick someone that it gave too much freedom to it would be the press, due to the fact that they have the ability to just publish false information, but he also said that he understands that it is their right to do so. I asked him if he was aware that this was the first amendment and he was yes, that he was definitely aware of that. 

Next, the older generation:

Shon Elliott:

Shon Elliott is my father. I asked him if he would approve of the following law and he said “hell yeah brother”. This a very in-character response from the man that raised me. I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way or allowed for too much freedom. To this, he said, “No I don’t. That is the reason we have the right to say what we want to say”. I asked him if he was aware that this was the first amendment and he told me that he was aware. 

LaDonna Elliott: 

LaDonna Elliott is my mother and one of the smartest women I have ever met. When I asked her about the law and how she would feel about it. She told me that she approved of it without a doubt. I asked her if she thought any of it was excessive or allowed for too much freedom. She said, “No I don’t. We should have the right to freedom”. I then asked her if she was aware that this was the first amendment to which she informed me that she was indeed aware. She then added that “The first amendment is something that gives us Americans a right that we often take for granted. We have the right to freedom of speech and to say the things we want and to disagree with the government. We’re lucky to live somewhere that allows that”.

Debby Rhines:

Debby Rhines is my mom’s sorority sister and someone I look up to very much. I asked her if she would approve of the law if congress were to pass it. To this, she said that she definitely approved of it. She said that “it was necessary”. I asked her if any of it seemed excessive to her in any way. She told me no, and that it was again a necessity. I asked her if she was aware that this was the first amendment and she told me that she was aware of that fact. 

Analysis:

As I interviewed these people, I was not shocked at all to find that the younger generation recognized the law just as much as the older generation. I also noticed that everyone agreed with the first amendment, another thing that didn’t surprise me. One thing that I did find interesting was just how passionate everyone seemed to be about it. No matter who I asked, their support of the law was clear and evident. 

Interpretation:

Everyone I talked to was in support of the first amendment. Their reasons all boiled down to the same theme of “because it’s important”. They all believed that freedoms of speech, assembly, the press, religion, and petition were all a necessity for our lives as citizens of the United States. 

Evaluation:

Some people may be shocked at the fact that the younger generation recognizes the law just as well as the older generation, but I’m not. My generation has never known a world of peace. We were born into a post-9/11 society and since then it’s been one thing after another. We are very aware of the importance of our rights and the extreme importance of our first amendment rights. I was impressed by just how passionate everyone seemed about the first amendment. In today’s world, there tends to be a bad habit of being uncaring towards our rights as Americans, so it was nice to see that people do indeed care. 

Engagement: 

The recent national survey on students’ opinions of the first amendment is a bit concerning. To hear that some think that the first amendment goes, “too far in the rights it guarantees” makes me wonder if people from other countries would feel the same way. In countries where people are killed for speaking their minds, would they agree that our counties laws go too far? 

Hallmark Movies Are the Back Bone of This Nation.

I hope that that title got your attention because it made me laugh while typing it. Anyways, let’s dive into one of my favorite things to talk about, my unironic love for Hallmark movies.

I used to roll my eyes at these types of movies, the cheesy holiday ones that have the most basic plot to ever be made up by the human mind. However, a few years ago, I just got super into them and even made my family watch them with me. We now have a game that we play every year where we see who can guess the plot most accurately. Since it’s time for them to start airing again, I’ve been wondering, why do people either love or hate these movies so much? Think about it, you never hear anyone not be opinionated on hallmark movies. They either love them and watch them every year or absolutely hate them and refuse to watch them for even a second. One reason for both parties could be that Hallmark movies are so easy to follow and take no brain power really to watch. I myself, I love that. When I’m watching a holiday movie, I don’t want it to stress me out to the point of me having zero enjoyment. Some people may see this as a bad thing. Since the plot is so easy to follow, this couldn’t be a real movie or real entertainment. Another argument for those who hate these movies is that they’re unrealistic. Which, I feel is unfair. They’re cheaply produced holiday romcoms, did you expect them to be hard-hitting reality pieces? Sometimes, people just wanna watch a movie where a guy and a girl fall in love while trying to save the guy’s family Christmas tree farm. I feel like that’s not too much to ask for. Hallmark movies are supposed to be cute and sweet and romantic and if you expect anything different from them, that’s on you respectfully.

At the end of the day, I love these silly little movies because they just feel like the holidays to me. They’re amazing and beautiful and I wouldn’t trade them for the world and I will die on this hill.

Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk,

All my love,

-Lexi

Christmas Before Thanksgiving?

I feel like every single year we have the same debate. The debate in question is, should it be acceptable to start celebrating Christmas before Thanksgiving? This question, I’ve noticed, tends to get people incredibly fired up either way. People are either adamantly on one side or the other. Okay so here’s my take: It should be considered acceptable to begin to celebrate Christmas before thanksgiving. I’ve always loved Christmas, I mean who doesn’t? It truly is the most wonderful time of the year. So if you ask me, why shouldn’t we be able to celebrate it whenever we want? Something else I’ve noticed since starting college is that we students really don’t have much time to celebrate Christmas with our friends at college. If we focused solely on Thanksgiving up until after the break, we would only have so much time to celebrate Christmas with them. Also, Christmas is the prettier of the two to decorate for. Give anyone a choice between putting up a Christmas tree and, I don’t know, an inflatable turkey, (I’m now realizing that I don’t know how to even decorate for Thanksgiving besides leaves and turkeys) I’m picking the Christmas tree. Christmas also has an entire genre of music dedicated to it, I don’t hear any songs about thanksgiving playing on the radio this time of year. What would a thanksgiving song even sound like? I am now very curious about that one. Anyways, moving on. Christmas is just all around, the more exciting thing to look forward to. It’s a whole season. Thanksgiving is a single day that kinda feels like the Thursday of the holidays. So, to wrap up my very passionate feelings about this topic, I’ll leave you with this. Christmas should be celebrated from November 1st all the way through December 25th. Thanksgiving can have the week of the actual day and nothing more.

Soundtracks Are Underrated

Movies, TV shows, and video games make up a large part of what people enjoy consuming in their free time. I am most certainly one of those people, but I think a big and often overlooked part of why we love them so much has to do with the incredible soundtracks that help make them so memorable. I want you to think about your favorite movie right now. Now, go look up the soundtrack of that movie and listen to it. I bet you can remember each scene that goes with each song. I just think that it’s super cool, that people can create music with no words whatsoever and yet still convey a story and a message. Soundtracks can make or break the thing that they are representing. If franchises such as the MCU had bad music to associate with their movies, they wouldn’t be as recognizable or popular as they are today. The same goes for things like Stranger Things. The soundtrack for that franchise is so wildly popular that now when people hear any type of electronic music, more often than not they call it “stranger things music”. The main one that most people recognize is “Kids” and it’s recognizable within the first few notes. My favorite soundtracks of all time have to be the ones that go along with video games. Games such as Skyrim or Dragon Age have such distinct styles to their music that I can tell you what exact level the songs on the soundtrack correlate to. I can tell you which songs go with which settings and characters. That’s the true beauty of soundtracks. They make up part of the bigger picture of the entire project. Without them, the final product would always feel incomplete.

The Outsiders

As we have established, I love reading. If I could get paid to read books, then I would never have to worry about my future career ever again. All that being said, I was never fond of being told what I had to read. I’ve gotten over it as I’ve gotten older because I recognize that required reading material is just a part of life as a student. The first time I remember running into a major required reading that went with a class was in 6th grade. The book was The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton. Here’s the thing, when I first heard the name of the book, for some reason, I thought it was about football. Don’t ask me why, I have no idea. So I was not looking forward to it, I was actually sort of dreading it. So imagine my surprise that it is now one of my all time favorite books that I recommend everyone reads at least once in their life. The Outsides, contrary to 12 year old lexi’s thoughts, is not about football, but instead is about gang and socioeconomic tension in Tulsa Oklahoma in the 1960’s. It’s written from the perspective of 14 year old Ponyboy Curtis and we find out at the end of the book, that the entire story was written by him for his english final project. Ponyboy writes about the traumatic events that have unfolded that involve the death of two of his close friends. Throughout the book, he attempts to understand his place in society and his friend group and come to terms with the fact that life is rough regardless of where you grow up. A big key takeaway from the book is that everyone struggles. It doesn’t matter who you are or where you live, at the end of the day, we all see the same sunset. This book had such an impact on me that even now, 7 years later, I still think about it. Each character in the book has their own unique personality. I think the two characters that stuck out to me the most were always Dallas and Johnny. They’re so interesting to me because they’re two sides of the same coin. We learn in the book that both of them have been through some pretty rough and painful lives. That pain caused Dallas to become hardened and tough while it made Johnny timid and afraid. Dallas is cool and angry and dangerous while Johnny is soft, quiet and keeps his head down. I just always thought that it was interesting that they were both so different and yet their fate of death was ultimately the same.

The Outsiders by S.E Hinton is an absolute classic that is going to always be applicable to life no matter how much time passes because at the end of the day, we all see the same sunset.

Disney Peaked with Tangeld

In the great year of 2010, an eight year old Lexi Elliott was exposed to a piece of media that would forever change her life. This was of course the movie, Tangled. I genuinely believe that Tangled is the best movie that Disney has ever created. Let me tell you why.

Rapunzel has such a great personality and no matter how old you get, you can always see yourself in her. She has dreams that may seem small to others, are the entire world to her. Dreams that are only possible to achieve if she leaves her tower. That’s another great thing that I love about this move, the symbolism of the tower. Young or old, we all have some sort of Tower that we just can’t seem to get out of. I was Rapunzel when I was eight and my tower was my house. I was Rapunzel at the age of sixteen and my tower was the town I had lived in my whole life. I am still Rapunzel at the age of 19 and now my tower is my own head. I will be Rapunzel when I am 25 and who knows what my tower will be then? My point is, Rapunzel teaches us that while the Tower may be comfortable, if we want to live the life that we dream of, we have to be willing to take the risk of leaving.

Don’t even get me started on Flynn Rider aka Eugene Fitzherbert. When I tell y’all that this man is the blueprint for what I base my type around. I adore this man. His character development is top tier. He goes from caring about nothing more than stealing and getting rich, to willingly giving over the crown and dying in order to free Rapunzel. I would also like to point out that there is a part in the movie where the man who has never honestly bought a thing in his life buys a small gift for Rapunzel because he can tell how much she likes it. There’s also the fact that he goes from saying this his dream is to be by himself on an island surrounded by money to telling Rapunzel that she was his new dream. That is the sweetest thing that I’ve ever heard and I will never get over it.

As I’m writing this I have the overwhelming urge to watched Tangled for some reason. So that’s what I’m going to go do, if you’re reading this and bored, you should also go watch Tangled and come to the conclusion that it is a cinematic masterpiece.

All my love,

-Lexi Elliott

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