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Reflection.

This blog post is going to be a little bit different. This is my last required post for the semester, and as weird as this may sound, I am a very different person from when I originally started these posts. When I started this blog for this class, I was eighteen years old and brand new to college. I was scared and incredibly lonely and homesick. I was overwhelmed and actually convinced that I had made a mistake and that college wasn’t for me. I felt like I had been thrown out into an ocean and told to keep myself afloat. Now, as of writing this post, I am nineteen years old and still pretty new to college. The difference is though, I don’t feel so scared anymore. I don’t feel so homesick anymore either because somehow in some strange way in these past months, Norman has become my home. It’s bittersweet to say that because a part of me feels like I’m betraying the people in my hometown but then another part of me feels like maybe that’s a necessary part of the journey. Maybe growing means moving on despite it hurting a little bit. I’ve learned a lot about myself since August. I’ve learned to never put assignments off, but if you do get a dr.pepper and a bag of chips for the night you finally decide to start. I’ve learned to not take things too seriously because everyone is pretty much just making this up as we go along. I’ve learned that life has a funny way of working out and that the way God shows up in it is really incredible. I’ve learned the importance of community and having genuine people around you who want to see you grow and succeed. Most of all, I’ve learned how to wait. Wait on what I deserve and wait for good things because they take time. I’ve learned to wait on God which if we’re being completely honest here is challenging but worth it. If for some reason, anyone at all at any point in time is reading this, here is a nineteen year old college freshman’s life advice that she’ll probably look back in the future and cringe. My advice to you would be to live life. Laugh loud and often, go on late-night drives with good friends, listen to good music. Talk to Jesus, and cry to Him too. Be there for your friends but let them be there for you too. Be kind to others, but be kind to yourself too, kind enough to know when to walk away and kind enough to know when to let yourself stay.

My name is Alexia Elliott. I’m nineteen years old and a freshman in college. I’m a little less scared than when I started out and I’m going to be okay.

The Cruel Prince

Recently, I’ve really been thinking about the Folk of the Air series, or as it is more popularly known, The Cruel Prince series.

Written in 2018 by author Holly Black, The Cruel Prince follows the story of Jude Duarte, a 17-year-old mortal girl who lives in the land of Faerie. She lives here because her stepfather killed her mother when she was young and took Jude and her two sisters to live with him. Needless to say, it’s a bit of an awkward family dynamic. Jude grows up wishing for nothing more than to be one of the fae and struggles her whole upbringing with fitting in and proving herself to those around her. Her entire character arc in the first book actually ends up with her realizing that if she can not be better than the creatures around her, she will “become so much worse”. Jude’s other half in the book is our other main character Cardan. I say that he is her other half not because they are best friends, but because they’re so similar. That is one of the main things about this series that I love talking about. Jude and Cardan and their realtionship. I think that both of their characters are so well written and that their entire relationship is interesting because they’re the same person in different fonts. They both play mind games and try to best everyone and anyone. They both were not raised with love so they both have stranged and warped perceptions of what it is. They see it as a weakness becayse it was something that gave them a vulnerability that could be exploited, so when they fall for eachother, they mistake it for hatered. Eventually they come around to the idea that maybe love is not a weakness and maybe it is in fact strength. In the final book, it is even an act of love from Jude that saves Cardan in the last book. I just really think its amazing how these two characters who hate the idea of love, end up loving eachother. There is something sweet about the way that they swore off love and then they found eachother and decided that they would be the person that the other broke that oath of never loving for.

Happy Spotify Wrapped Day!

SPOTIFY WRAPPED FINALLY DROPPED FOR 2022 AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.

If there’s one thing about me, it’s that I’m going to look forward to my yearly Spotify wrapped. For anyone unaware of what Spotify Wrapped is, it’s a feature that the music streaming platform, Spotify, has in which every year the user gets a recap of their most streamed songs, favorite artists, and most listened-to genre. I firmly believe that you can tell a lot about a person based on their taste in music and Spotify wrapped definitely tells me a lot about myself. For instance, I am now aware that I listened to “Mirrorball” by Taylor Swift 56 times this year, and honestly, that makes me proud because I thought that number was going to be a lot higher. So good for me. Moving on, I think that Spotify wrapped is a really cool feature that brings people closer together. Not only do I look forward to seeing my Spotify wrapped, but I also look forward to seeing my friends’ yearly wraps. There’s a joke on social media where every year before wrapped comes out, people post about not caring about anyone else’s Spotify wrapped and how we don’t need to blow up the feed with everyone’s most streamed songs. To that I say, I CARE ABOUT YOUR SPOTIFY WRAPPED. Please post them. Send them to me, and talk to me about them because I absolutely adore hearing about the music that people love. I think that it’s precious that we all have different types of music that we love and I love when I find other people that like the same artist or song, it feels like a hug. Another really cool thing about the yearly wrap is seeing all the songs you listen to the most throughout the year in a single playlist. One of my favorite things to do is put the playlist on shuffle and just see what plays. There are times that I’ve done this and the most random song that I had completely forgotten about will play and bring with it a whole flood of memories.

To conclude, I love Spotify wrapped season and if you know me please share your Spotify wrapped with me, I would love to see them!

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1F0sijgNaJdgit?si=383f6f7fefa64943

Something About You (that now I can’t remember)

Recently, The 1975 released new music and it’s been a big hit. Though, the most popular new song by far is “About You”. This is for obvious reasons, and I’m fully convinced that this may just be one of the prettiest songs that makes me feel the most unexplainable emotions of both love and sadness.

The entire song is about a man recounting his love that has obviously ended. He talks about how there is a place he goes, presumably a place the couple used to go together, to remember them and what they once were. He talks about the conversations that they would have if they were still together. He then goes on to ask the question “Do you think I had forgotten?”, asking the partner if they really thought that their relationship and themselves had been forgotten about so easily. He then goes on to continue reminiscing on their relationship and how he still finds himself holding on to the hope that they may one day find their way back to each other. After this, we launch into perhaps my favorite part of the song and I just have to show yall these lyrics:

“There was something about you that now I can’t remember
It’s the same damn thing that made my heart surrender
And I’ll miss you on a train
I’ll miss you in the morning
I never know what to think about
I think about you
About you

To be dramatic for a second: every time I hear these lyrics I want to do a multitude of things, including but not limited to twirling, dancing, sobbing, collapsing to the floor, singing, clutching my heart, and fall in love. I want these lyrics to be played in the tv show of my life at a significant moment and I want to think of someone and have someone think of me.

Now we don’t have time to unpack all of that, but you get what I mean. I’m obsessed with the idea of there forever being something special about a person that once they’re gone, you can never quite put your finger on what it was about them but you know that it was there. The way that there is just something about certain people in our lives that stay with us and haunt us long after that person leaves our lives. And the way that that thing haunting us is both painful and comforting because even though they’re gone now, they were there at some point and this unidentifiable thing is ironically one of the only parts of recognition you have left of them. It’s poetic and painful and really beautiful.

Steve Harrington Deserves the World

Stranger Things is one of the most popular TV shows in the world. Each time a new season is released, it takes the world by storm and it’s the only thing that anyone can talk about for months. The one consistency across these seasons? My love and the whole world’s love for Steve Harrington.

Steve was introduced in season one as nothing more than the jerk that Nancy was dating. In fact, he was actually supposed to be killed off after the first season, but luckily the creators of the show saw the potential of his character. Since that season, Steve has had one of the most iconic character developments of all time. Steve went from a self-absorbed jock to a caring father figure and the best babysitter of all time. We watch him take on the role of being a protector of the younger kids and risk his life for the people around him. There is a lot of speculation over why steve acts the way he does and my personal opinion is that it has something to do with his home life. It’s hinted in early seasons that Steve’s mom and dad aren’t around a lot. They run off on business trips and leave steve alone in a giant house. I think that Steve stepped up to be a role model for the younger kids because he understands what it’s like to not have one. He knows what it’s like to not have any parental figures around to watch over you, and he doesn’t want any other kid to grow up that way. This is why he takes care of the younger kids. I think it’s incredible how selfless we’ve watched him become as the show has gone on. When we started this show, he was a young high school boy and he definitely acted like it, now he has truly grown up into a man who now has things to defend. This teaches an important lesson. That being that anyone can change and decide to be better. Sometimes it’s just a matter of growing up.

It Ends With Us.

If you’ve been on any social media platform in the past year, you’ve probably heard of the book “It Ends With Us” by Colleen Hoover. I read this book during my senior year of high school and it genuinely might be one of my favorite books I’ve ever read.

It Ends With Us tells the story of a young woman named Lily Bloom. Lily is an outspoken, caring young woman who is just trying to get through life. The book begins with Lily meeting a very angry Ryle one night as they both contemplate life on the roof of a parking garage. From there, the two meet again and again until they become friends and eventually even start to date. Now, this is where our story gets a little different than most YA books. We slowly start to sense that something isn’t quite right with Ryle. The way he reacts to things is usually out of proportion and he makes comments that are off putting. Colleen doesn’t just sweep these aspects under the rug or write them off as him “caring”. She has lily acknowledge these things and even call Ryle out at some points. The two work things our, and even decide to get married. But it is far from happily ever after, as the book goes on, we see Ryle for what he truly is, an abuser. Going so far as to Push lily down the stares and then lie to her when she regains consciousness, telling her that she tripped. More and more events like this happen and we watch as lily goe through it all. This is all happening while an old friend from lilys past comes back into her life. Atlas, the sweet boy she met and took care of from her childhood. He’s returned and is now a very well known and successful chef. Atlas watches Lily as she goes through the abuse, and wants nothing more than to help her, but he knows that he can’t help her unless she wants it. Eventually, Lily leaves Ryle, only to discover that she is pregnant with her and Ryles child. She decides to keep the baby, but after giving birth, tells Ryle that she wants a divorce. She asks Ryle to look at their child, and what he would tell their daughter if she ever came to him and told him that a boy had abused her. Ryle understands, and leaves. We end the book with a glimpse of the future. Lily and Ryle successfully co-parenting their daughter, and Atlas and Lily starting a relationship.

I love this book. Not for the romance or dramatic moments, but because of the lesson it teaches. This book is a cautionary tale for young girls who view relationships through rose colored glasses. In the beginning of the book, Ryle is perfect. He’s handsome and charming, he’s funny and intentional with his time. He cares about Lily and her dreams. He is everyones ideal book boy. And then, when he hits Lily for the first time, all of that charm starts to fade away and we begin to see right through it as Lily does. This book doesn’t write off toxic behavior as romantic, a problem in a lot of YA novels, it calls it out for what it is, abuse. I also love this book for the real best book boyfriend, Atlas. Atlas not only defends Lily as soon as he realizes what is going on, he then backs off when he realizes that lily needs to make her own decisions. He understands that he can’t make the decision to leave for her. He doesn’t insert himself into her situation in order to be a hero or her knight in shinning armor. This also allows the readers to see something rare, the idea that sometimes, you have to want to be saved and you have to be willing to save yourself.

First Amendment Project

I interviewed six people, three from my generation and three from the older generation. I asked them the following question: Would you approve of a law saying “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press, or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.” if congress were considering it? 

The younger generation:

Anndee Greenlee:

The first person I talked to was my friend Anndee, a nineteen-year-old at the University of Texas Tech. When I asked her if she would approve of the law, she said yes automatically. When I asked if she thought it was excessive, she said no because “everyone has a right to speak their mind”. When I asked her if she recognized the law as the first amendment, she said she did. This checks out because I and Anndee were in the same 8th-grade history class and had it drilled into our heads by an amazing teacher who recognized its importance. 

Jake Elliott:

The next person I interviewed was my brother, Jake Elliott who is a junior at the University of Oklahoma. When I asked him if he would approve of the law, he said “yeah probably”. Well, actually he told me, “Isn’t that just the first amendment?” but I digress. I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way and he said no. He stated that “it was something to be defended”. I then asked if he recognized the law as the first amendment, and he said that he did in fact recognize it.

Trevor Whal:

Next, I interviewed Trevor Whal, who is a member of the NORTC and a junior at the University of Oklahoma. When asked if he would approve of the law he said, “Ma’am isn’t that just the first amendment?”. I asked him to tell me his thoughts on it anyway and he said that he definitely approved of it. When I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way or offered too much freedom, he said “not at all”. He then added that if he had to pick someone that it gave too much freedom to it would be the press, due to the fact that they have the ability to just publish false information, but he also said that he understands that it is their right to do so. I asked him if he was aware that this was the first amendment and he was yes, that he was definitely aware of that. 

Next, the older generation:

Shon Elliott:

Shon Elliott is my father. I asked him if he would approve of the following law and he said “hell yeah brother”. This a very in-character response from the man that raised me. I asked him if he thought it was excessive in any way or allowed for too much freedom. To this, he said, “No I don’t. That is the reason we have the right to say what we want to say”. I asked him if he was aware that this was the first amendment and he told me that he was aware. 

LaDonna Elliott: 

LaDonna Elliott is my mother and one of the smartest women I have ever met. When I asked her about the law and how she would feel about it. She told me that she approved of it without a doubt. I asked her if she thought any of it was excessive or allowed for too much freedom. She said, “No I don’t. We should have the right to freedom”. I then asked her if she was aware that this was the first amendment to which she informed me that she was indeed aware. She then added that “The first amendment is something that gives us Americans a right that we often take for granted. We have the right to freedom of speech and to say the things we want and to disagree with the government. We’re lucky to live somewhere that allows that”.

Debby Rhines:

Debby Rhines is my mom’s sorority sister and someone I look up to very much. I asked her if she would approve of the law if congress were to pass it. To this, she said that she definitely approved of it. She said that “it was necessary”. I asked her if any of it seemed excessive to her in any way. She told me no, and that it was again a necessity. I asked her if she was aware that this was the first amendment and she told me that she was aware of that fact. 

Analysis:

As I interviewed these people, I was not shocked at all to find that the younger generation recognized the law just as much as the older generation. I also noticed that everyone agreed with the first amendment, another thing that didn’t surprise me. One thing that I did find interesting was just how passionate everyone seemed to be about it. No matter who I asked, their support of the law was clear and evident. 

Interpretation:

Everyone I talked to was in support of the first amendment. Their reasons all boiled down to the same theme of “because it’s important”. They all believed that freedoms of speech, assembly, the press, religion, and petition were all a necessity for our lives as citizens of the United States. 

Evaluation:

Some people may be shocked at the fact that the younger generation recognizes the law just as well as the older generation, but I’m not. My generation has never known a world of peace. We were born into a post-9/11 society and since then it’s been one thing after another. We are very aware of the importance of our rights and the extreme importance of our first amendment rights. I was impressed by just how passionate everyone seemed about the first amendment. In today’s world, there tends to be a bad habit of being uncaring towards our rights as Americans, so it was nice to see that people do indeed care. 

Engagement: 

The recent national survey on students’ opinions of the first amendment is a bit concerning. To hear that some think that the first amendment goes, “too far in the rights it guarantees” makes me wonder if people from other countries would feel the same way. In countries where people are killed for speaking their minds, would they agree that our counties laws go too far? 

Hallmark Movies Are the Back Bone of This Nation.

I hope that that title got your attention because it made me laugh while typing it. Anyways, let’s dive into one of my favorite things to talk about, my unironic love for Hallmark movies.

I used to roll my eyes at these types of movies, the cheesy holiday ones that have the most basic plot to ever be made up by the human mind. However, a few years ago, I just got super into them and even made my family watch them with me. We now have a game that we play every year where we see who can guess the plot most accurately. Since it’s time for them to start airing again, I’ve been wondering, why do people either love or hate these movies so much? Think about it, you never hear anyone not be opinionated on hallmark movies. They either love them and watch them every year or absolutely hate them and refuse to watch them for even a second. One reason for both parties could be that Hallmark movies are so easy to follow and take no brain power really to watch. I myself, I love that. When I’m watching a holiday movie, I don’t want it to stress me out to the point of me having zero enjoyment. Some people may see this as a bad thing. Since the plot is so easy to follow, this couldn’t be a real movie or real entertainment. Another argument for those who hate these movies is that they’re unrealistic. Which, I feel is unfair. They’re cheaply produced holiday romcoms, did you expect them to be hard-hitting reality pieces? Sometimes, people just wanna watch a movie where a guy and a girl fall in love while trying to save the guy’s family Christmas tree farm. I feel like that’s not too much to ask for. Hallmark movies are supposed to be cute and sweet and romantic and if you expect anything different from them, that’s on you respectfully.

At the end of the day, I love these silly little movies because they just feel like the holidays to me. They’re amazing and beautiful and I wouldn’t trade them for the world and I will die on this hill.

Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk,

All my love,

-Lexi

Christmas Before Thanksgiving?

I feel like every single year we have the same debate. The debate in question is, should it be acceptable to start celebrating Christmas before Thanksgiving? This question, I’ve noticed, tends to get people incredibly fired up either way. People are either adamantly on one side or the other. Okay so here’s my take: It should be considered acceptable to begin to celebrate Christmas before thanksgiving. I’ve always loved Christmas, I mean who doesn’t? It truly is the most wonderful time of the year. So if you ask me, why shouldn’t we be able to celebrate it whenever we want? Something else I’ve noticed since starting college is that we students really don’t have much time to celebrate Christmas with our friends at college. If we focused solely on Thanksgiving up until after the break, we would only have so much time to celebrate Christmas with them. Also, Christmas is the prettier of the two to decorate for. Give anyone a choice between putting up a Christmas tree and, I don’t know, an inflatable turkey, (I’m now realizing that I don’t know how to even decorate for Thanksgiving besides leaves and turkeys) I’m picking the Christmas tree. Christmas also has an entire genre of music dedicated to it, I don’t hear any songs about thanksgiving playing on the radio this time of year. What would a thanksgiving song even sound like? I am now very curious about that one. Anyways, moving on. Christmas is just all around, the more exciting thing to look forward to. It’s a whole season. Thanksgiving is a single day that kinda feels like the Thursday of the holidays. So, to wrap up my very passionate feelings about this topic, I’ll leave you with this. Christmas should be celebrated from November 1st all the way through December 25th. Thanksgiving can have the week of the actual day and nothing more.

Soundtracks Are Underrated

Movies, TV shows, and video games make up a large part of what people enjoy consuming in their free time. I am most certainly one of those people, but I think a big and often overlooked part of why we love them so much has to do with the incredible soundtracks that help make them so memorable. I want you to think about your favorite movie right now. Now, go look up the soundtrack of that movie and listen to it. I bet you can remember each scene that goes with each song. I just think that it’s super cool, that people can create music with no words whatsoever and yet still convey a story and a message. Soundtracks can make or break the thing that they are representing. If franchises such as the MCU had bad music to associate with their movies, they wouldn’t be as recognizable or popular as they are today. The same goes for things like Stranger Things. The soundtrack for that franchise is so wildly popular that now when people hear any type of electronic music, more often than not they call it “stranger things music”. The main one that most people recognize is “Kids” and it’s recognizable within the first few notes. My favorite soundtracks of all time have to be the ones that go along with video games. Games such as Skyrim or Dragon Age have such distinct styles to their music that I can tell you what exact level the songs on the soundtrack correlate to. I can tell you which songs go with which settings and characters. That’s the true beauty of soundtracks. They make up part of the bigger picture of the entire project. Without them, the final product would always feel incomplete.

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