This is my sweet daddy – the man that claps for me every time I pull into the driveway, washes and fills up the gas in my car, and makes me chocolate milk every single morning. He is beyond selfless and cares about our family so much that he would do anything for us. He works so hard just to make us happy. He truly is the BEST! Although we don’t look much alike, (I am my mother’s identical twin, sorry dad!!) we act and think very similarly. Both of us are the enneagram type 1. This means that we are idealists, perfectionists, and reformers. An enneagram is like a personality test, except about the way you internally think. As a 1, we have a very harsh “inner critic” that judges ourselves and others constantly. This is a blessing and curse…everything I do is done as perfectly as possible, however I am also very hard on myself. My dad and I work tirelessly to make sure everything is done correctly and the best. We both struggle with trusting others to do things for us, as well as working together with other people due to others not doing things the way we want or like it. For example, when it comes to group projects, I do all of the work because I don’t know if the other part of the group will be good enough – my projects also have to be over the top and the best of the best. My dad is the same way when it comes to his work. Instead of having his customers go through the different departments of his work, he does it all himself because he doesn’t trust others to do it right, or good enough. We both have the same mindset and way of completing tasks. We also are both routine-oriented. We have a strict routine that has to be done exactly-so or else the world may fall apart…just kidding! I love my awesome dad and our same brains!🤍
My Daddio 🥰🤴🏻
