Let’s jump into a very different topic that we all are curious about at some point, love!
It’s one of those tricky things that can leave us scratching our heads and questioning everything. So, here’s a fun thought: Do we love with our hearts, or do our brains get involved in this ride?
So in this blog, I want to share my thoughts about this common question. where does love truly come from?
For centuries, thinkers from Aristotle to the 18th century believed that the heart was the center of decision-making. However, over time, the view shifted, recognizing the heart as the source of feelings and emotions, while the brain became associated with logical decision-making.
So, why is the heart considered the center of love and affection? Our eyes perceive the world, but it’s our heart that processes these feelings before sending them to the brain to make decisions. On the other hand, those who rely solely on logic receive information through their eyes, process it in the brain, and then send it to the heart.
When we think about love, we can see two different kinds.
1. Love from the Heart: In this kind of love, the brain often loses its function. When someone is in love, nothing matters more than being with their beloved. However, this type of love can lead to regret after the relationship begins. Many find themselves denying what they once said before getting together, and may even struggle to accept the reality of their connection.
2. Love from the Brain: Some psychologists argue that love originates in the brain, not the heart. When a person approaches someone out of necessity or dependency, it may seem like emotional love from the heart, but this often fades quickly. In contrast, love sparked by the brain can be powerful and unforgettable. It may lead to intense feelings that could drive a person to the brink of madness, creating a connection that is deep and profound.
Ultimately, love that comes from the heart can sometimes be a trick of the eyes, driven by physical desires. When we love with our hearts, we risk miscommunicating our feelings to the brain. In contrast, when we love with our brains, the connection to the heart becomes clearer, leading to a love that is unpredictable and deeply impactful.
But my dear, never forget: love is a magic that makes your life beautiful. Love is not just for another person; it can also be for the person you see in the mirror when you wake up in the morning, yourself! This love can come from both the heart and the brain, without any regrets. 😉
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” — Aristotle
Maryam Popal